Terrorism does not belong to any religion

“Why are some Muslims nice people while some of them are terrorists?”
Over the past few years, there has been a growing tendency to dub Muslims as terrorists. Being a terrorist has nothing to do with religion itself. It's the misinterpretation of Religion that can sometimes lead to terrorism, which is never specific to one Religion more than another.

Terrorists are terrorists. All accusations of Muslim-based terrorism are made by people who have no idea what they're talking about. The world cannot afford more hate and violence and death. There is no terrorism without terror, and there is no terror without the absence of morality, respect, and compromise. Terror stems from hatred, and the time to weed out the hate has always been and always will be now.

It does not matter what improves in the world there will always be nutters who get behind one banner or another and try to force their beliefs on everyone else. These "terrorists" are on the whole misguided fools who are being manipulated so that someone else can make a profit! Religion is an excuse and an attempt to justify action not the cause. Besides, Islam teaches all the muslim that the murder of an innocent person is the murder of humanity as a whole, and I do believe all the religions teach the same thing to all its people!

37 Reasons why Men Get Married:)

1. To have a life-long partner
2. He has found his true love
3. It is the right time to get married
4. He is getting old
5. He has a big house and he is alone
6. He has kids from his ex-wife and has no one to help
7. He needs a free life-long domestic helper
8. He has too much money and time
9. He is sick of his previous wife or wives
10. Religiously, they can, just like the Arabs.



11. He needs someone to bear him kids.
12. His first wife is infertile (or more accurately, it is the men's fault most of the time. So don't always blame the women.)
13. He is still a big boy and needs a motherly-figure to look after him
14. He needs to be satisfied sexually
15. His parents force him to
16. He sees he is lagging behind his peers and want to catch up
17. He can't cook and he needs a cook at home
18. His girl-friend's mother hinted him to get married and she had even booked the wedding venue for them and informed all the relatives they are planning to get married this year! (So he can't say no.)
19. The girl is very rich
20. Or the girl's father is very rich



21. Or the girl's father only does business with sons-in-law
22. He wants to take care of the girl for eternality and forever
23. The girl is dying and marrying him is her last wish...ha.....ha...
24. He gets married so that his parents can shut up
25. He gets married because his parents say that she is a nice girl
26. He gets married because he made her pregnant
27. He gets married because the girl's father will kill him if he doesn't
28. He gets married so that the girl can get citizenship (and they normally divorce later so that the girl with her family can move on and has a better life.)
29. He gets married to his childhood sweetheart
30. The girl swear that she will haunt him for life if he doesn't marry her (and he is scared! Very scared!)



31. He gets married because he has always want to start a family
32. He gets married because he wants to spend his life-time with her
33. He gets married so that he can take good care of her
34. He marries her so that she can escape from her own home
35. He marries her just simply he loves her a lot
36. And she loves him too
37. They get married because they are destined to. (It is fate at work! Or you can call it God's work!)

Fight For Your Dream

I ever wrote an essay for the topic called 'dreaming' in my one of previous notes. And now I just wanna say once again to never stop dreaming.Dreams provide nourishment for the soul, just as meal does for the body. Many times in our lives we see our dreams shattered and our desires frustrated, but we have to continue dreaming. If we don’t, our soul dies.

Sometimes, we need to fight in the name of our dreams. I call it as "The Good Fight". In the heroic ages – at the time of the knights in armor – this was easy. There were lands to conquer and much to do. Today, the world has changed a lot, and the good fight has shifted from the battlefields to the fields within ourselves.
When we’re young and our dreams first explode inside us with all of their force, we are very courageous, but we haven’t yet learned how to fight. With great effort, we learn how to fight, but by then we no longer have the courage to go into combat. So we turn against ourselves and do battle within. We become our own worst enemy. We say that our dreams were childish, or too difficult to realize, or the result of our not having known enough about life. We kill our dreams because we are afraid to fight the good fight.

The first symptom of the process of our killing our dreams is the lack of time. The busiest people I have known in my life always have time enough to do everything. Those who do nothing are always tired and pay no attention to the little amount of work they are required to do. They complain constantly that the day is too short. The truth is, they are afraid to fight the good fight.

The second symptom of the death of our dreams lies in our certainties. Because we don’t want to see life as a grand adventure, we begin to think of ourselves as wise and fair correct in asking so little of life. We look beyond the walls of our day-to-day existence, and we hear the sound of lances breaking, we smell the dust and the sweat, and we see the great defeats and the fire in the eyes of the warriors. But we never see the delight, the immense delight in the hearts of those who are engaged in the battle. For them, neither victory nor defeat is important; what’s important is only that they are fighting the good fight.

And, finally, the third symptom of the passing of our dreams is peace. Life becomes a Sunday afternoon; we ask for nothing grand, and we cease to demand anything more than we are willing to give. In that state, we think of ourselves as being mature; we put aside the fantasies of our youth, and we seek personal and professional achievement. We are surprised when people our age say that they still want this or that out of life. But really, deep in our hearts, we know that what has happened is that we have renounced the battle for our dreams – we have refused to fight the good fight.

When we renounce our dreams and find peace, we go through a short period of tranquility. But the dead dreams begin to rot within us and to infect our entire being. We become cruel to those around us, and then we begin to direct this cruelty against ourselves. That’s when illnesses and psychoses arise. What we sought to avoid in combat – disappointment and defeat – come upon us because of our cowardice. And one day, the dead, spoiled dreams make it difficult to breathe, and we actually seek death. It’s death that frees us from our certainties, from our work, and from that terrible peace of our Sunday afternoons.

We always know which is the best road to follow, but we follow only the road that we have become accustomed to the only way we can rescue our dreams is by being generous with ourselves. Any attempt to inflict self-punishment – no matter how subtle it may be – should be dealt with rigorously. In order to know when we are being cruel to ourselves, we have to transform any attempt at causing spiritual pain – such as guilt, remorse, indecision, and cowardice – into physical pain. By transforming a spiritual pain into a physical one, we can learn what harm it can cause us. To remind us never to stop dreaming!

Hay...Mr Flirting :)

Has anyone ever noticed how guys flirt? I mean lets all be normal human beings here. We all know flirting exists and we all know that both sexes do it.

Flirting is okay for me. I've just had some observations on how a few people is flirting with me. They all have their own styles. Make that own "funny" styles. I find it really funny when a guy is flirting with me. Maybe the reason for this is that I know they are just flirting and that there is nothing else they want but to prove to themselves that I am into them and that I will flirt back sooner or later.

WELL, its okay if they do flirt. I do learn a lot from their styles. Sometimes its annoying, but most of the time I find their style information packed. Because of the way they act towards me, I am able to understand and observe the way the opposite sex thinks.

1.Mr. Feeling Boyfriend
He will constantly text you with a morning, afternoon and evening greeting. Will ask you to always stay safe and would say that you text him when you get home so that he will not be worried. Will bring you chocolates, drive you home, meet you after work and will visit you at home. He even gets angry when you do not reply to his texts so he will send you prepaid credits or call you. This type gives you an instant boyfriend. They will make you feel that they are so into you by constantly reminding you of their presence. Sometimes its annoying because of course I don't want unsolicited reminders of eating lunch on time (I eat when I'm hungry, and I eat every time I want to without being reminded! haha). The Mr. Feeling Boyfriend thinks he can control the girl she's flirting with. Lalo na if the girl is replying back to all his text messages and phone calls.

2. Mr. Mushroom
Sometimes they will text you, sometimes they will not. Sometimes they make you feel they are interested in you by replying to your posts, sometimes they wont. Whenever you are together, they will act like they like you, but the moment you part ways, you would feel that he really is not. You will notice in this Mr. mushroom's online pages (fs, multiply, facebook, etc) that there are hundreds of other girls in the friends list who also happen to leave comments very so often. And if you observe deeply, the comments are replies to Mr. mushroom's comments. Mr. Mushroom does not have the ability to stay. He will leave the moment he wanted to, without even thinking!

3. Mr. All Purpose Flirt
The type of guy who flirts with everyone. He feels/thinks/acts like he is the most handsome person you know. And he will always make you feel that he is welcome to new acquaintances. He will occasionally touch you in the shoulder, will sometimes give you a kiss on the cheek and will talk to you especially if you are the most beautiful person around. Apparently, if there are other girls that are more eye catching, he'd flirt with them first before he'd flirt with you. Now if you are the most oh-not-so-beautiful person around, he'd only talk to you if there is no one else to talk to. I've seen the moves of this all purpose flirt. When he sees you in a different place and he is with someone who is more attractive than you are, he will not talk to you. Annoying right?

4. Mr. Friends Only
He is a flirt in disguise. He will act as your close friend but when he sees an opportunity to flirt, boom! He will do so. He is the type of person who made friends with you because he is unsure if you are the correct flirting prey or if you are a for keeps friend. He will decide to keep you as a friend anyway. When he notices that you are indeed a good flirting prospect, he will remove the disguise and then hit on you! Oh well, a friend hitting on you is truly the funniest flirting style.

I learned a lot from them so far and its nice that their flirting identities are now known to me. At least I can avoid them, or if I want to have a good laugh, I'll look at them flirt.

13 Jurus Baru Rayuan-nya Para Leboy Cap Kampak

> 1. Tadi malam aku kirim bidadari untuk menjaga tidurmu. Eh,
> dia buru-buru
> balik. Katanya, 'Ah, masa bidadari disuruh jaga
> bidadari?' --- Hoek!
>
> 2. Kalau kamu nanya berapa kali kamu datang ke pikiranku,
> jujur aja, cuma
> sekali. abisnya, ga pergi2 sih! --- Gombal abis deh Lo!
>
> 3. Sempet bingung jg, kok aku bisa senyum sendiri. Baru
> nyadar, aku lagi
> mikirin kamu. --- WAKS!
>
> 4. Kalau suatu saat kamu hancurkan hatiku... akan kucintai
> kamu dengan
> kepingannya yang tersisa. --- Hoeeek!
>
> 5. Berusaha melupakanmu, sama sulitnya dengan mengingat
> seseorang yang tak
> pernah kukenal. --- Hahaha nice one!
>
> 6. Kalau kamu ajak aku melompat bareng, aku ngga bakalan
> mau. Mending aku
> lari ke bawah, bersiap menangkapmu. --- idih gepeng ntar!
>
> 7. Aku pernah jatuhkan setetes air mata di selat Sunda. Di
> hari aku bisa
> menemukannya lagi, itulah waktunya aku berhenti
> mencintaimu. --- too much!
>
> 8. Ga usah janjiin bintang dan bulan untuk kamu, cukup
> janjiin kamu bakal
> selalu bersamaku di bawah cahayanya. --- he..he..pinter
>
> 9. Kalau kamu nanya mana yg lebih penting buat aku: hidupku
> atau hidupmu,
> aku bakal jawab hidupku. Eits, jangan marah dulu, karena
> kamulah hidupku.
> --- yakkkk tepuu bgt..
>
> 10. Pertama ketemu, aku takut ngomong sama kamu. Pertama
> ngomong sama kamu,
> aku takut kalau nanti suka sama kamu. Udah suka, aku makin
> takut kalau jatuh
> cinta. Setelah sekarang cinta sama kamu, aku jadi bener2
> takut kehilangan
> kamu. Kamu emang menakutkan! --- Ini gombalan pa mo bilang gw kayak kuntilanak ya? Hm...
>
> 11. Ketika hidup memberiku seratus alasan untuk menangis,
> kau datang membawa
> seribu alasan untuk tersenyum. ---kyknya gw ga bmaksud gitu deh...Geer deh loo!
>
> 12. Jika aku bisa jadi bagian dari dirimu, aku mau jadi
> airmatamu, yang
> tersimpan di hatimu, lahir dari matamu, hidup di pipimu,
> dan mati di bibirmu
> --- maksut loh?!
>
> 13. Orang bilang bulan itu indah...tapi aku bilang tidak.
> Orang bilang
> planet venus itu cantik...tapi menurut aku tidak. Aku
> bilang bumi itu indah
> dan cantik...karena ada kamu. --- Cape deh...

Am I in Luv or Do I Think That I am ?

There is a big difference between Love and infatuation. Some people can't tell the difference, thinking they are in love but really it is a deep infatuation. Infatuation is instant desire - one set of glands calling to another.

Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.

Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy.
There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.

Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you - to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by their presence, even when they are away.

Miles do not separate you. You have so many wonderful little films in your head that you keep replaying.
But near or far, you know they are yours, and you can wait.

Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing them."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.

Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship, which makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.

Infatuation lacks confidence. When they're away, you wonder if they're cheating. Sometimes, you check.

Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. They feel your trust, and it makes them even more trustworthy.

Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.

Love is an upper. It makes you feel whole. It completes the circle. It fills the empty space in your heart.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you think up.
It makes you a better person than you were before. If you have love in your life, it can make up for a great many things you don't have. If there is no love in your life, whatever else there is has a lot less meaning. The secret of our being is not only to live but to have something to live for.



INFATUATION

Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love.

Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint?
This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction. often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.

Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless.Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the feeling than it is in the other person.

Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person.

Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation.
This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.



LOVE

Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love. Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfilment of expectations.

When you have difficulty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding.

Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace.
It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties.
Love is Kind Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others..
It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.

Katanya Seh Ini Rahasianya Para Kaum Adam --->Benar Tidaknya Terserah Anda :)

1. Tidak Semua cowok seperti Dedy Cobuzer.
Jadi jangan harap kami bisa membaca isi pikiranmu disaat kamu manyun tanpa suara. Apa susahnya sih bilang : "Aku Laper, Aku minta dibeliin pakaian, Tolong Rayu Aku...!!"

2. Hari Minggu itu waktunya istirahat setelah 6 hari bekerja, jadi jangan harap kami mau menemani seharian jalan2 ke mall.

3. Berbelanja BUKAN olahraga. Dan kami gak akan berpikir ke arah situ.

Bagi kami belanja ya belanja, kalau sudah pas ya beli saja, perbedaan harga toko A dan B
cuma 1,000 perak jadi nggak usah keliling kota untuk cari yang paling murah, buang2 bensin aja.

4. Menangis merupakan suatu pemerasan.

Lebih baik kami mendengar suara petir, guntur , bom meledak daripada suara tangisanmu yang membuat kami tidak bisa berbuat apa2.

5. Tanya apa yang kamu mau. Cobalah untuk sepaham tentang hal ini.

Sindiran halus tidak akan dimengerti.
Sindiran kasar tak akan dimengerti
Terang2an menyindir juga kita gak ngerti!

Ngomong langsung kenapa!?

6. Ya dan Tidak adalah jawaban yang paling dapat diterima hampir semua pertanyaan. It's
Simple.!!

7. Cerita ke kami kalo mau masalah kamu diselesaikan. Karena itu yang kami lakukan. Pengen dapet simpati doang sih, cerita aja ke temen2 cewekmu.

8. Sakit kepala selama 17 bulan adalah penyakit. Pergi ke dokter sana !

9. Semua yang kami katakan 6 bulan lalu gak bisa dipertimbangkan dalam suatu argumen. Sebenernya, semua
komentar jadi gak berlaku dan batal setelah 7 hari.
Janji kami untuk menyebrangi lautan dan mendaki gunung itu hanyalah klise, jangan dianggap serius.

10. Kalo kamu gak mau pake baju kayak model2 pakaian dalam, jangan harap kita seperti artis sinetron dong.

11. Kalo kamu pikir kamu gendut, mungkin aja. Jangan tanya kami dong.

Cermin lebih jujur daripada Lelaki.

12. Kamu boleh meminta kami untuk melakukan sesuatu atau menyuruh kami menyelesaikannya dengan cara kamu. Tapi jangan dua2nya dong. Kalo kamu pikir bisa
melakukannya lebih baik, kerjain aja sendiri.

13. Kalau bisa, ngomongin apa yang harus kamu omongin pas iklan aja.

Ingat, jangan sekali2 ngomong apalagi pas saat tendangan finalty.

14. Kami bukan anak kecil lagi, jadi tak perlu mengingatkan jangan lupa makan,
selamat tidur, dll.
Menurut kami itu hanyalah pemborosan pulsa saja.

15. Kalo gatel kan bisa digaruk sendiri. Kami juga kok.

16. Kalo kami nanya ada apa dan kamu jawab gak ada apa2, kami akan berpikir memang gak ada apa2. Ingat, seperti no.1 kami bukanlah pembaca
pikiran. Ngomong baby...ngomong. ...!!

17. Kalo kita berdua harus pergi ke suatu tempat, pakaian apapun yang kamu pakai, pantes aja kok. Bener. Jadi tidak ada alasan gak mau pergi ke pesta karena
tidak ada baju.

18. Jangan tanya apa yang kami pikir tentang sesuatu kecuali kamu memang mau diskusi
tentang bola, game, billyard, memancing atau mungkin juga ttg teknik
mereparasi mobil.

19. Kami malas berdebat secara hati dan perasaan, ingat!! kami hanya pakai logika.

20. Terima kasih sudah mau baca ini. Iya, aku akan
tidur di sofa nanti malam.