One of my friends recommend me to look for love through the net. Well, she might not know that even one of my love stories was being started from the net, just like being pictured in 'You've Got Mail' movie, though mine was not ended happily ever after. But everything happens for a reason as this on-line love experience could give me a picture about what on-line love is..wanna know??? here it is..:)
Though a lot of different people throughout the world meet only in chat room, have the same interest and then find it "love"..most people may feel so fresh with these terms. A guy "meets" a girl in a chatting room and later on they find out that they have so much in common. From those all the chatting and meeting online, all of a sudden they discover that they cannot sleep tight anymore without saying good night to their cyber lovers.
How does a cyber love vary from a real life romance? Cyber love is not the love of parents or friends but the affection, attachment and care toward a person of opposite sex. Perhaps one significant difference is that communication plays such a large part. Words that conver feelings have enormous effect. Before a real date we fix our hair and our clothes, while on the lnternet we polish our intellect, imagination and personality. Actually the sequence is reversed-first we show our inner beauty and only after it has won victory does the veil fall off the physical vehicle of that personality at the time of that first meeting in person.
It is a popular topic in cyberspace to debate whether or not true love can develop merely on an intellectual level, which is without the physical attraction, the familiarity of the other appearance. To put it another way: does the physical appearance of the man or woman play a part in the relationship if they have already fallen in love through the exchange of thoughts and feelings?
Although this is sound vain, there is still a lot of couples who meet in the net and succeed in their relationship.. I don't know what is it called, talking to someone on the net without meeting her in person. How does it feel when your heart wants to meet that person without really knowing anything much about her/him? Not knowing how she/he looks, but then again love never needed any eyes. Love is something of a miracle, a miracle that comes straight from your heart and desires to touch her heart. A miracle that happens to every human at least once in a lifetime. No one has ever escaped this miracle of love. One way or the other one has to fall inside this love. Will my love story ever get started? Will there ever be a chance that we will ever meet? Will she ever accept me as what I am? Love on the net is never easy, but love is there, and love is the life's biggest gift.
Online love can be the best thing to ever happen....I don't how will it works, but everything is in God's plan:)
