Love can exist without sex. Sex can exist without love.
But when you love someone, sex becomes more than
the means of procreation or a pleasurable release of
tensions. An orgasm is not a release, it is a celebration.
The orgasm becomes the meeting of you, through the
other, with the whole. It is always divine, where the other
becomes the door through which you enter into the divine.
An orgasm is always spiritual, it is never sexual. Those
who think that it is sexual have not understood anything
at all; they don't know anything about sex and they don't
know anything about orgasmic experiences. It becomes
the way of total sharing, becoming one, the ultimate union,
becoming whole, if only for a second.
It is important that sex and love not be confused, but I
am afraid that few know the difference anymore. Too
many confuse lust or need with love. They are not in
touch with their emotions, and so mistakes are made.
Sex itself has no meaning, it is the emotion that gives it
importance.
One should be mature enough to know the difference
between sex and love. This also involves the ability to be
able to handle the responsibilities involved in the total
commitment of love. Though maturity has a lot to do
with age, even some adults are not ready to commit to
this responsibility.
Love is one of the most powerful emotions humans have,
and the illusion of love should not be used to play games
